Safety Center
Your safety is the
foundation, not a feature.
Blumie is built for people who value honesty and privacy in dating. That means safety, dignity, and respect are designed into every part of the app. Here's exactly how.
Verification
Every member confirms their account with a quick, private verification step before they can appear in discovery or send a single message. It's how we keep Blumie free of fake profiles and bad actors.
Reviewed by a trained, in-house team. Never automated, never third-party.
Verification photos are permanently deleted the moment a review decision is made. We keep a record that you're verified. Never the image itself.
Your verification photo is never shown to other members, employers, or anyone outside the review team.
Reporting & blocking
You can report or block any member in two taps, from any profile, photo, or message. Blocking is instant and silent: the other person is never notified, and your profile disappears from their view.
What you can report
What happens next: every report is reviewed within 24-48 hours by our trust & safety team. If we need more context, we'll reach out. and we'll always let you know the outcome.
Meeting up safely
Take your time getting to know each other. When you're ready to meet, these four habits keep you in control:
Start with a video call
A quick video chat before meeting confirms the person matches their profile, and gives you a feel for the vibe first.
Meet in a public place
Choose a busy café, park, or restaurant for a first meeting. Never share your home address early on.
Tell a friend your plans
Share where you're going and who you're meeting with someone you trust before you head out.
Trust your gut
If something feels off, you owe no one an explanation. Leave, unmatch, and report. We'll take it from there.
Zero tolerance
Harassment, shaming, or discrimination based on someone's condition results in an immediate, permanent ban. No warnings.
This community exists so no one has to explain or defend their health status. Anyone who undermines that is gone, permanently.
Report a bug or security issue
Found a technical problem or a security vulnerability? This is a separate channel from member reports. It goes directly to our engineering and security team, not moderation.
security@blumie.appSomething else on your mind? Our support team is here.
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